As we continue to look at I Timothy 3:2 we see that a church leader must be someone who exercises self-control or demonstrate temperance.
This hits hard to some of us. I, for one, struggle with my weight. I’m going to be vulnerable here and just admit it. Food just really tastes good. And it’s fun to eat delicious food. It’s also such a social thing to do in our society. And not only that, but for some of us, food is an escape from reality as much as alcohol or drugs.
Some may say, “Well, those things are different!” I will agree that in some ways they are. We have to eat food to live, but we don’t have to have drugs or alcohol to live. In fact these things could kill us. But if we are truly honest, food can kill us too. Certain foods have been proven to be unhealthy. And overeating to the point of being overweight causes health issues, which can eventually cause death.
Ouch! Gracious! This article started out straight up and to the point.
But lest I appear to just be picking on those of us with weight issues, let me mention a few other areas I believe we need to demonstrate self control and temperance.
What about how much TV we watch? Or actually WHAT we watch on TV? There’s much too much junk on there.
What about those books we are constantly reading? Are we reading God’s Word too? What about all the time we spend on the internet?
What about our talk? What about that gossip? What about those harsh words that come out of our mouths to our spouse and children?
What about the way our homes look? Are we so busy doing other things that we don’t take care of the things with which God has blessed us? Are we so busy doing “godly work” that our families are suffering?
We as leaders in our churches must pray and maintain balance in our lives so that we are being good examples, demonstrating the qualities listed here in this scripture. Even though we are human like everyone else, we as leaders are looked up to and the world is following our lead. That is a sobering thought.
Is your life measuring up? Are you living as a good example of self control?
God help us to be diligent in rising above our human desires and let the Holy Spirit maintain control of our lives in every area so that we are truly leading the world into a relationship with Christ. And in doing this, we will be happier women. How so? Because following God’s way is always best.
Self control is not just something that is found as a qualification of a godly leader, but also listed as a Fruit of the Spirit. We are all called to be self controlled, and leaders are expected to set the bar.