Registration Closes on 1/16! Don’t miss out. Just a few seats remain.
Registration Closes on 1/16! Don’t miss out. Just a few seats remain.
Every year, we take a survey of the women who attend or participate in the Women’s Ministry Council. Our goal is to evaluate and learn what we have done well, what needs improvement, and is there anything we are missing. This year, our survey confirmed something we have known was a need, and brought a new issue to the front as well.
A Known Need:
As we have grown to reach women online, beyond our own backyards, a common question would arise from our live training events.
“Will this be recorded?”
There are so many women who have wanted to attend a live Saturday morning training, but are not in reasonable driving distance. We recognized that we needed to find a way to provide our services to women who couldn’t attend live. The original WMC model was to try and encourage local leaders to start a WMC in their own city/county. That model never took hold, and we needed a solution. We began researching the best way to provide this service, to record the meetings or even Facebook live them.
A Changing Schedule:
The survey also brought to our attention that several of our longstanding local attendees had not been able to attend recent meetings due to changes in their availability. Their lives had changed, their kids were growing, their work schedules were different, and their commitment/activities at their church were (and should be) a priority.
Even though the women still wanted to attend, and benefited from our online postings, they just didn’t have the margin to attend the Saturday morning meetings like they once did.
On Solution to Two Problems:
For the last seven years we have attempted to create a balance between our live training events and online support articles and resources. As we looked at this two issues, we realized that by solving the first one (will this be recorded) we could actually resolve the second one. Recording the trainings would allow our long distance followers to benefit from the training, as well as allow our local ladies to watch the training on a date and time that was a better fit to their schedules.
WMC Goes Digitial:
In 2020, the Women’s Ministry Council is going to move to a complete only format. Our leadership team is still working out the details on exactly what that will look like. The result will provide a more flexible opportunity to learn from more ministry leaders, address more topics, and break it up into bite sized modules.
Part of the research process is looking for the format that allows us to provide these modules with 1) high quality video/audio and 2) maintain our commitment to keeping WMC trainings free.
We are excited to see how this will continue to bless leaders in 2020, we appreciate your prayer as we walk through this process. As we have more information available, it will be announced here and on our FB page.
If you have been on the fence about registering, don’t delay we are going to sell out. There are less than 20 seats left!
Make sure you pop by the LeadHer facebook page. There are some giveaways happening now through when the last ticket is sold.
All of the details are on the Facebook page. You can also learn more about the event, speakers, our sponsors, feedback from previous LeadHer attendees, and so much more.
When our plans for LeadHer 2019 were put on hold, I didn’t understand why but I trusted. Normally, I would be freaking out about having to postpone an event. Yet, I found peace. While doors were shutting left and right in the planning process, there was not a point where our team felt like God was shutting it down. We were being asked to wait.
I’m calling it our Selah pause. God was orchestrating some things we could have never imagined, but we needed to wait for just a little while. About two weeks ago, our team met, the topics for our meeting included LeadHer 2020. By the time we left that table, we were unified in feeling that the Lord was calling us out of the pause and into action.
What unfolded in just over a few days was beyond anything we could have expected or done on our own. Who God is bringing together for LeadHer 2020 could only have happened with that Selah pause.
Which brings us to the announcement…
LeadHer2020 is ON THE WAY. More details are to come, in the next few days!
The location? BOOKED.
Wondering where? Wondering who?
Just keep an eye out for more updates on #LeadHer2020!
Is it too early to talk about Mother’s Day brunches? Probably not. If you are a planner, like me, your fall calendar is running according to plan & your eyes are set on planning for spring.
If you would have talked to me about Mother’s Day brunches 15+ years ago, I would have told you that I love them and think they are a wonderful idea for a Women’s Ministry to host. Over the years, my opinions on this have changed.
Not Everyone Is A Mother
As I have become friends with women who have either chosen to not have children, who are still waiting to have that first child, or whom have lost a child… Mother’s Day can be a difficult occasion to celebrate. Not having a child, they often feel left out of the celebration. They may not realize their role as a Spiritual Mother in the community of believers is more than enough to qualify them for an invite. At the same time, when the speaker focuses on the joys of biological motherhood, it can be a hard event to sit through. For those who have lost a child, it can be down right painful.
Not Everyone Has a Mother
Some women are still grieving over the death of their mother. Mother’s Day is a reminder of who is not here to celebrate with. There are other women who may have had a biological mother, but her presence was either physically or mentally absent. It is hard to celebrate a relationship that didn’t exist. Also, there are women who have trauma related to their mothers and celebrating Mother’s Day is salt in the wound of the pain as they watch other mothers and daughters experiencing a joy they didn’t know.
Not Everyone Has a Daughter
Quite often Mother’s Day brunches are “Mother & Daughter” events. If your mother lives out of town or out of state, attending an event like this with our mom may not be an option. If you are also a mother of only sons, then you attend the event alone versus celebrating with your sons.
If we are not careful, Mother’s Day brunches can become a very exclusive event that leaves some of the women in our church feeling left out of not only celebrating with a particular holiday, but also fellowshipping with their sisters in faith.
Here are some practical ideas or ways to relook at Mother’s Day events to create a more inclusive event that welcomes all women from your church and community.
Be Intentional with your Speaker
When hiring or tasking a Speaker for your event, ask her to speak on a topic that is not necessarily applicable to only biological motherhood. Spiritual mothering, discipling, relationships, etc.
Consider Mother & Child Events
Instead of hosting a mother & daughter event, consider offering it as a mother and child event. Or, plan two events one for mothers & daughters and one for mothers & sons. Planning two events in one year may be too much, but a possible solution is alternating years between the two.
Change the Name of the Event
You may choose to hold the event near or on Mother’s Day but consider calling it by another name. A sisterhood event, women’s event, becomes a very inclusive event. For those who choose to celebrate by inviting their mother or daughter to attend with them as part of their Mother’s Day weekend, it’s a great opportunity to do something fun together. But, for those who struggle with Mother’s Day it becomes a fun event that doesn’t focus on motherhood but instead being a woman in Christ.
Quite often, I share with ministry leaders the importance of making sure their leadership represents the body of the church. We should also keep this in mind as we plan our events. If we focus our events on ONE particular group or type of women in the body, at the exclusion of the others, then our ministry is missing the mark.
A.K.A. : What a Secular Radio Station Taught Me About Fundraising
The Women’s Ministry Council is located in the Treasure Coast of Florida. If you travel south east of us, you will land in the Bahamas. The Bahamas have been in the news regularly since Hurricane Dorian took a slow, but devastating, stroll across their northern islands. In some areas, little if anything stands. Lives were lost. Homes were lost. And the recovery effort is going to take years.
South Floridians have a special kinship with the Bahamas. Not only do we have locals who have come to live here from the Bahamas, but it is a popular weekend vacation spot for Floridians. It was no surprise to any of us that when the Bahamas needed us, we were ready to give back the islands that are near and dear to our heart.
A popular radio station began an immediate effort to obtain donations of phyiscal goods to bring to the Bahamas. Shortly after they made a decision, they were going to hold a 48 hour fundraising drive to raise $100,000. Their morning show would run non stop for 48 hours because that is how long Hurricane Dorian hovered over the islands moving at such a slow pace that it only moved 100 miles in 2 days (100 miles = $100,000 , $1 per mile it traveled during the 48 span).
By the end of the 48 hour marathon, the radio station raised a whopping 200,000 dollars. They not only met their goal, but knocked it out of the waters. I was stunned. I can’t even raise $500 on my birthday for a good cause. I’ve watched organizations and churches try to raise funds for ministries, trips, missions, building projects, etc. Very rarely do I see these attempts result in DOUBLE their goal, particularly when the original goal is already in the 6 digits.
Here is what I learned:
Perhaps, we could learn a thing or two about our own fundraising efforts from how a secular radio station raised $200,000 in 48 hours.
Hurricane Dorian has devastated the Bahamas. As a Floridian, the last time I saw anything like this it was when Hurricane Andrew hit Homestead. For those of us who remember Andrew, remember Homestead, we have a deep appreciate for what the people of the Bahamas are currently going through. Loved ones are displaced. Homes destroyed. People are missing. The storm has taken lives. In our hearts we feel a deep need to do something to help.
Years ago, I had an opportunity to talk about missions with some very long term missionaries. I was surprised to hear about all of the things that we send overseas or things we do when we volunteer there… that are not only unhelpful, but actually counter productive. At some point, missions became more about US than others. It was a way to appease that part of us that wants to make a difference in the world. It became a method or tool that we as parents use to send our children off to some other place where they will be suddenly humbled in to appreciation for the life they have. This was also when I was introduced to the book When Helping Hurts. I highly recommend it for all church leaders to read before you begin missions (local and global) in your church. It will open your eyes to how we can better serve those who are in need.
Last year, a friend of mine showed me a series of pictures. It was a missions supported school in another country. In each picture you would see the same kids, in the same clothing, seated in the exact same position. However, from photo to photo the banner with the school’s name changed. Each banner reflected the name of the church or missions program that supported the school. Why? Because, it made the donors feel better to see their name on the school. This wasn’t a scam, but a way to appease the donors so that the funds kept coming to support the school & keep it running.
A few months ago, a missionary friend shared with me how church missions groups come and go to their location. She said, “This room has been painted ten times this year.” I don’t know about you, but I don’t even paint the inside of my home once per year. When I asked her why, she explained that they needed something for the visiting missions trips to do and painting was an easy project. She went on to explain that they had tried construction projects in the past, but due to the lack of experience of the people on the trip, they often had to go back and redo all the work.
I went on a missions trip several years ago. It cost me just over $1000 total. Ever since I’ve wondered how much further my money would have gone, how much more good it would have done, had I just sent $1000 to the organization that received us. That feeling has only been reinforced as I learn more and more about the other side of missions trips. As I connect with more long term missionaries who open my eyes to what is really needed and how much of what is done is a waste to simply make us feel good.
That brings me to Hurricane Dorian. The outpour of good hearted people who have a strong desire to help is heartwarming. The Bahamian Government has provided a list of it’s immediate needs (and what it doesn’t need). Locals are looking for donation drop off locations. There are quite a few Facebook groups used to keep in touch about the Hurricane & now the talk has turned to Bahamas Relief. Praise God for the generosity of humans when crisis comes! Based on my observations, here are some questions I have compiled when you consider donating goods to relief.
What can you do to help the Bahamas?
Pray. People are still searching for family members, mourning those who have been lost, and coming to terms with the destruction.
Give. There are great organizations like Samaritan’s Purse, The Red Cross, Convoy of Hope, etc. that are well known and established organizations. Give financially and let their expertise funnel the money where it will do the most good.
Donate. Listen to the reports on what the Bahamian Government needs and donate those items if you have them, or donate funds to purchase those items as needed. Recovery is going to take a very long time.
Volunteer. If you have expertise (recovery, building, medical, etc.) and can take some time off to volunteer… GO! Use that expertise. If not, look at how you can help locally by volunteering at local donation collection centers.