10 Quick Questions

Survey SaysWMC Friends,

It’s that time again, for a quick survey of just 10 questions to get to know our readers better.

As we get a better grasp of how your ministry functions, we can create content that fits within that function.

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Welcome the Linger

THE ART OF LINGERING

Earlier this week, in the piece “An Amazing Event”, we explored how a local church hosted an event for women by pointing out areas of excellence.   The sixth point was that this church welcomed the linger.  This point resulted in a few questions that will be unpacked in this follow up piece.

At the end of the women’s event “Amazing”, the women in attendance were directed outside to the after party.  This consisted of lunch, places to sit and have conversations, a small market to shop, activities, etc.  I have no idea if there was an official cut off time, as I left after about an hour.  However it didn’t appear they were in a rush to send their guests on their merry way.  Speaking with one of their leaders, I learned that this is a very intentional decision, because they find that when they allow people to gather after their events better and deeper connections are made.

In theory, this sounds wonderful.  But, you may be asking about how it is logistically possible for smaller churches.  I believe it is fair to say that most of us are hosting events at our church, whether it be a simple brunch or a more expansive women’s conference.  I believe it is also fair to say that most churches don’t have a separate conference center or banquet hall on the property, but instead use a shared space.  With services on Saturday nights and Sunday mornings, our events are most commonly held on a Friday evening or Saturday morning.  Once the event concludes those shared spaces must be reset for services.

How do we let our guests linger when we have to prepare our space for the church services that same day or the next morning?

Extra Volunteers – many hands make light work.  If you have more volunteers on hand, specifically after the event, it will take less time to reset the church.  

Move the Party – consider other spaces.  If you held an event in the sanctuary, once the event is over move to a new location.  This frees up the sanctuary to be reset by volunteers, while your guests can linger and talk in the lobby, parking lot, etc.  You can use the overflow room, lobby, or even outside spaces.  Keep in mind that if you choose to move the party off the church property, you may lose guests.  More people are apt to stay and linger, but once they get in their car it can be more tempting to just head home.

Designate the Space – if moving your guests into a new space to linger, define that space.  Clear signage indicating where the conversation space is located and volunteers to direct your guests from one space to the other is helpful.  Your church parking lot can be a great space, so long as you consider the weather, set up seating/tents, etc. 

Provide Food – if you feed them, they will stay.  This does not mean that you need to over extend your budget by providing free food.  Some churches can afford this, some will include it in ticket prices, others simply invite vendors and let their guests pay.  Just make sure if you are going to expect guests to pay for their own lunch that this is included in the promotional materials.  Food can be a meal or even just light snacks.

Create Conversation – give them something to talk about and engage with.  Set a space or few that are great photo ops.  You can create these spaces with things you can find around your home.  While waiting in line to take a photo, women will start talking.  As they walk the space, the décor itself is a conversation starter.  Food will ignite conversation, as your guests discuss their options or the quality of the food.  People love to talk about good food.

Fun Activities – so long as there is something to do, your guests will linger and connect.  Whether it’s a mini-market place they can stroll around and shop, photo ops, or games and activities, having something to do will encourage women to stay and engage.

Something else to consider…

As a woman who has attended many local events over the last 20 years, let me share what usually happens when I return home.  I’m walking in the door, feeling encouraged, inspired, motivated… I don’t want that feeling to pass.  Then I hear these words…

“Mom?  What’s for lunch?”

Within minutes of returning home, mom is back on duty.

If you are scheduling an after party similar to the event I attended this past weekend, that will include food… activities… etc.

Why not invite the family to meet them women afterwards?  Turn the after party into a family event.  A few food trucks or food vendors, activities for the kids to engage in, conversation areas for the women… but also opportunities for the men to connect too.  It adds to the community.

 

A Popular Identity

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Do you remember the popular kids in school?   They were popular because they were known by everyone (known doesn’t necessarily mean friends with everyone).  Some of the kids were just naturally likeable, they didn’t do anything in particular to be loved by everyone.  They were just good people, that seemed to get along well with anyone.  Then there were those who made strategic moves (good or bad) to work their way into notoriety.  When you think back to these people you were in school with, or if you were one of them…

What where you know for?  What made people gravitate to you?  What made people like you or want to be your friend?

Now let’s spin this to ministry.

There are churches and ministries that are incredibly popular, everyone knows who they are.  They may never have even walked through their doors or looked at their website… but you drop their name and everyone recognizes it immediately.  Some of these churches and ministries have gotten to that position naturally.  They just do what God called them to do, followed that vision, and the people came to them.  Others made strategic choices (good or bad) to elevate themselves into the world of being known.

But, what are they known for?  What made the people gravitate through their doors or into their cause?

What is Your Vision or Mission Statement?

If your church has a vision or mission statement, that is the most obvious answer.  THAT is what your church or ministry should be known for.  If your mission is to serve the homeless, then that should be the answer.  “Community Church is known for it’s outreach and service to the homeless in our community”.  If your mission is to support the orphans in your community, then that should be answer.  “Women’s Ministry of First Church is to share the gospel with our foster and adoptive families, by walking along life with them.”  If the church has a mission, then the Women’s Ministry should have a similar mission pin pointed toward women.

When asking the community about your church or ministry, you would hope that their answer would be representative of your vision/mission statement.  If it’s not, that needs to be addressed.

A few years ago, I attended an event with my sister.  At the end of the event I asked her opinion of what she experienced.  She replied:  “These are precious, godly women.”  That is great feedback.  Part of the mission of that church foremost connecting people to Christ, and based on what we witnessed their women’s ministry was doing just that.

I recently had a discussion with a local woman about her church, and I posed a similar question to her.  I wanted to know what her church was known for, and she replied “Well, people call it the popular church.”   I asked her what she meant by that, I wanted to understand more.  Why is it popular?  Do they love on people well?  Are they super active in the community?  As I pressed in further, she explained… “Everyone knows the church by name or at least someone who goes there.”  When I asked what the mission statement of the church was, she didn’t know it.  This is not so great feedback.  It’s not terrible, but I’m not certain our ministries simply want to be known for existing.

Get a Vision or Mission Statement

If your church or ministry doesn’t have a vision or mission statement, it’s time to get into prayer and ask God to put a calling on your heart for your church/ministry.  If you do have a vision/mission statement, ask people randomly if they know what it is.  If they can’t answer you, or can’t articulate it well, then revisit your vision/mission statement.  Perhaps it needs to be revised so that it is simpler and more clearly defined.  Or, you may just need to remind those who are in your church/ministry every so often what your mission/vision statement is.

Have Accountability to that Vision/Mission

Once your church/ministry has a clearly defined and easily explained vision/mission statement, ensure that you have people on staff or in your planning team that are going to hold you accountable to that vision/mission.  Weigh your plans, budget, events, outreach, trips, programs, and ministries against it.  If it doesn’t hold up to the vision/mission, let it go.  If you can’t let it go, if you really feel like God is calling you to something new… it may be a case of the Lord giving you a new vision/mission.  Those who serve for this accountability can join you in prayer seeking God’s direction and guidance to continue as you have been called or that it is time to carve a new pathway.

Keep a Finger on the Pulse of the Community

If you believe that your church/ministry has a significant calling and presence in your community, the best way to find out if that is being executed is by checking the heartbeat of the community.  Ask not just your church members or the women your ministry serve, but also the community.  When meeting people and striking up conversation, ask them if they’ve heard of your church or ministry.  What do they say, how do they respond?  This is an easy way to find out if you are living our your vision or if there needs to be course correction.

Being a popular church or ministry is NOT a bad thing.  What matters is WHAT you are popular for, what you are known for in the community.  The simplest answer come from Scripture in John 13:35, we will be known for our love for one another.

“By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

What will distinguish us from each other, as churches and ministries, and define our vision/mission is in the way that we love.  How we serve, care, tend, lead, teach, and guide the flock we have been put in charge of and the communities we have been called to.

United as One Body

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by Gena McCown, Founder WMC

For five years, we have been serving women in the Treasure Coast.  Pouring into leaders, connecting ministries from various churches, and introducing these ministry leaders to ministries that are serving our communities.  It has been an incredible blessing to us, sharing our 20+ years of ministry leadership experience.  It has been a blessing to leaders in our community, and we are beginning to see the longer reach as things set in motion come to fruition.

Recently, I was invited to a Church United Gathering in my city.  It was only the second meeting here, but a movement that has been in other cities a bit longer.  This gathering brings together Pastors and ministry leaders in our community… regardless of denomination… for the purpose of support and encouragement.  I participating in the pre-meeting prayer gathering, sat through the morning worship and message, then went to a break out group session for others who share a similar position in ministry as I do.  After the event concluded, my heart just felt so full.  To see the same call to unity and support on the church level that we’ve been working on a specific ministry level… I can’t even begin to explain how that makes me feel.

Years ago, the Lord put the call of unity on my heart.  Clearly, He has put it on the hearts of others.  Not only should we not forsake meeting with one another in church on Sunday mornings, but also we as leaders should not forsake meeting with one another.  We have not been called to serve in ministry alone.  Leaders pour into others, but leaders also need to be poured into.  I don’t know how many cities Church United has reached, but I am thankful for those who have begun this ministry… and thankful for the groups that will be meeting in the days, months, and years to come.

A cord of three strands is not easily broken.  What if 2 of the strands are not individual people, but churches… ministries… organizations?  What if a brother who is born for adversity, is the church down the street who answers the call of another in crisis?  What if our churches who are blessed financially provided an offering to our churches who are in need?  What if we shared our spaces?  What if we broke bread together?

What if we fulfilled the great commission as one CHURCH?

How do we start?  By opening our doors.

 

May 2018 Leadership Calendar

May 2018

Hope you are enjoying these monthly Leadership Calendars!  If you have missed a previous month, we have them in the “Downloads & Printables Section” .  If you have any suggestions that we could include for future calendars, please share in the comments section.  We are currently compiling these suggestions.

 

A Common Identity, Our Unique Calling

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When we speak of Spiritual Gifts, we are talking about those unique gifts and talents that the Lord gives to us to use for His purpose and glory.  For some it is teaching, shepherding, and leading.  Others may be gifted in prayer, hospitality, and service.  There are many gifts, just as there are many parts of the body.  While together we represent the body, our individual gifts are like the body parts working in accordance to their gifts.  The eye doesn’t do the work of the heart, each must do it’s part:

1 Corinthians 12:12-27 (NIRV)

One Body but Many Parts

12 There is one body, but it has many parts. But all its many parts make up one body. It is the same with Christ. 13 We were all baptized by one Holy Spirit. And so we are formed into one body. It didn’t matter whether we were Jews or Gentiles, slaves or free people. We were all given the same Spirit to drink. 14 So the body is not made up of just one part. It has many parts.

15 Suppose the foot says, “I am not a hand. So I don’t belong to the body.” By saying this, it cannot stop being part of the body. 16 And suppose the ear says, “I am not an eye. So I don’t belong to the body.” By saying this, it cannot stop being part of the body. 17 If the whole body were an eye, how could it hear? If the whole body were an ear, how could it smell? 18 God has placed each part in the body just as he wanted it to be. 19 If all the parts were the same, how could there be a body? 20 As it is, there are many parts. But there is only one body.

21 The eye can’t say to the hand, “I don’t need you!” The head can’t say to the feet, “I don’t need you!” 22 In fact, it is just the opposite. The parts of the body that seem to be weaker are the ones we can’t do without. 23 The parts that we think are less important we treat with special honor. The private parts aren’t shown. But they are treated with special care. 24 The parts that can be shown don’t need special care. But God has put together all the parts of the body. And he has given more honor to the parts that didn’t have any. 25 In that way, the parts of the body will not take sides. All of them will take care of one another. 26 If one part suffers, every part suffers with it. If one part is honored, every part shares in its joy.

27 You are the body of Christ. Each one of you is a part of it.

What does this mean for our ministries?

Imagine what would happen in your city, if every Women’s Ministry (or Church) decided it would focus on helping the homeless.  That is a noble cause!  But, what about the orphans?  The widows?  The disabled?  What about the kids who need to hear those VBS lessons?  What about the unexpected pregnancies?  Or, the women who are in recovery?

If we all focused on just one particular group, the results for that group would be amazing.  However, the impact on the other groups would be devastating.

As ministries, when we embrace our unique calling as a collective group, we divide the load.  Many hands do make light work, but many hands also reach more people… different people… in different ways.

How do we know our calling and live it out as a ministry?

Seek the Lord – begin your search for understanding by coming to the Lord in prayer.  Ask Him to reveal to you the needs in your community, your place in the church and community, and how he would have you serve.

Speak to Your Pastor –  it is important to understand that if your ministry is underneath the authority of the church that you should be supporting the vision/calling of your church.  If your church is called to reaching the community for Christ, then your mission as a ministry is to reach women for Christ.  If your church has a heart for those who are orphaned, in foster care, etc. then so should your ministry.  If your ministry is not under the authority of the church, seek God for further clarity.

Test the Women – if you have not done it yet, have your women take a spiritual gifts test.  By identifying their individual gifting you can see how they can fit within the existing ministry or expand the reach of your ministry.

Connect with Other Leaders –  make it a point to get to know other ministry leaders in your area.  If you see that multiple ministries are already serving one group of people well, you can look at other groups that need service.  If a need presents itself in the community that is too big for one group to handle alone, partner up.

There are some churches and organizations that have the means (resources and people) to have a vision/mission/calling that has a broader casting.  That is ok!  Perhaps it is time for a NEW ministry to be apart of your church, or a new group to be served.  The point is that we are intentional about how we serve in our community by seeking the Lord and through communication between our Pastors and community leaders.