Recap of Training Event: Single Sisters

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On Saturday, June 30, the Women’s Ministry Council held a quarterly training event related to the topic of serving our single sisters.  Our guest speaker, Willow Sanders or Protect the Heart, shared with us her experience as a single mother and single woman in the church.  Her three point approach to addressing this need in the church & has also been supplemented with additional information that may be beneficial.

SEE SOMETHING –

In order to address a concern or a problem, we must first see it for what it is… within our community and within the church. 

  • Over 50% of the US population are single.  There are more single people, than married.
  • Of these singles, 53% of them are women.
  • Only 23% of single women attend church regularly.
  • 1 in 2 babies are born outside of marriage.
  • There are 15 million single moms in the US alone.
  • 67% of single parents are not actively attending church.
  • Less than 1% of all Christian Churches have formalized single mom programs or outreach.

What Do You See?   Do you notice single women or mothers in your church?  Do you notice when your single women or mothers are not there? 

Scripturally, we have missed the mark on serving our single women and mothers.  James 1:27 is clear that the fatherless are close to the Father’s heart and should be close to ours.  The Bible never directly speaks about “single women” needing assistance but it does address widows over 80 times, fatherless over 100.  This means that the care of God’s people is important.

We do not need to be concerned with why a woman or mother is single in order to serve her.  Remember, this is about acts of service and not about what you think she deserves or what you think she can do on her own.  Do not assume that our single women and mothers have people to help and support them, or that they do not need help because they can do it for themselves.

Single mothers may have a difficult time making their needs known because they feel they are unending and do not want to be a burden.  Single women also don’t want to burden others with their needs.  In addition, there needs may be so overwhelming they don’t even know where to begin to ask for help.  If we want to understand how to bless them, we need to be connected with them in relations and have a heart willing to help.

SAY SOMETHING

As a community, and ministry leaders, we can be apart of fixing this issue.  If you are reading this, I assure you, you have single women in your church and community, you have single mothers too.  (And, there are also single men and fathers too!)  How do we start?

  • Build a relationship with your church/community/ministry leaders around this issue.  Break down the cons and focus on the benefits to the health of the entire Body by addressing it.
  • Understand that there is a difference between including them in your ministry or community events, and having a separate meeting or ministry to address their unique set of needs.
  • Gather others who have a heart for growth and guidance in this area.  
  • Always have childcare for events, free if at all possible.  Don’t forget that single parents will have great difficulty in attending weekly Bible studies and small groups without a childcare option.
  • Offer to babysit for free, and do it often.  This is a great option for teens to learn about serving.
  • Teach them by doing life with them.  Go grocery shopping and teach the single mom how to stretch her dollar, help her create a budget, meal plan strategies, etc.
  • If she is a single and pregnant & lacking support, go with her to doctors appointments and advocate for her (especially if she is young).
  • Gift her girl time.  Watch her kids so that she can connect with her friends, or become that friend who takes her out for coffee.  Go to the beach, invite her over (and her kids), go window shopping, etc.
  • Research Support Groups – Embrace Grace, Embrace Life, and Embrace Dads
  • Help her around the house.  A single, working, mother may need help tackling laundry or dishes that have piled up.  A single woman may need help with little projects around the house that she lacks the tools/know how for.  Bring your husband with you, and have him knock out some little projects while you are helping her catch up on chores.
  • Buy an oil change for her.  Host a car maintenance/home repair day through your church on a monthly basis.  Have a team of knowledgeable men (or women) that can go with her to the mechanic or help her negotiate home repairs.  Single women and mothers worry they can be taken advantage of.
  • Send her a gift or card with encouraging Scriptures attached to serve as a VISIBLE reminder that God (and you, the church) SEE her, think of her, and care about her.
  • Single moms can become overwhelmed with house care.  Clean her house, hire a service, or help her clean and organize her home.
  • Surprise her with a midday lunch while at work or at school.  Little gestures like this can be life breathing.
  • Gift her gas or grocery gift cards.  You never know when she’s going to need that extra few dollars to get through the week.
  • Cook her a meal for no reason, or if you know she’s going through a rough patch set up a meal train.
  • Start up a run, walk, jog, bike, exercise group that includes the children.
  • Buy or send flowers, for no reason.
  • Offer tutoring or homework help for her kids, or if she is still a student… help her.
  • Listen to her goals and dreams, and help her make a plan to pursue them.
  • Pray WITH her and FOR her.

SOLVE SOMETHING

John 10:10 tells us that “the thief comes ONLY to steal, kill, and destroy; I {Christ} have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

What a better trifecta of doom than to take potential restoration and steal hope, kill opportunity, and destroy new legacy.   As leaders, as churches, we can be the second part of that scripture.  We can help these women so that they may have life, and have it to the fullest.  We know that focusing our efforts will not solve every problem associated with being a single woman or mother, but it is a start.  The more we get to know these women, their needs, then the more we can come up with solutions.

Some things to keep in mind about singleness…

  • Singleness is not inherently lonely.  Funneled and guided in the right direction, it can create more time to invest in ministry or meaningful relationships.  However, that does not mean she will not experience seasons of loneliness.  This is why it is important to be connected to her relationally not just in service.
  • Singles do not need to be “fixed”.  It is not a downcast position in life.  Encourage them to put their faith in God’s timing, when they need the encouragement.  However, do not deliver false promises.

A famous quote attributed to Mr. Rogers was something that came from his mother.  She told him that in times of trouble, trial, or crisis to:  “Look for the helpers.  You will always find people who are helping.”

You, my precious sisters, ARE those people. 

Remember, to expand your view of WHO these single women are.  Click on the links below to view/print two hand outs from this event.  Share them with your ministry/church leaders.  Pray about who can join your Women’s Ministry Team with a heart for single women and mothers.

Serving Single Sisters

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Single Sisters: In An Idea World

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In an ideal world, serving our single sisters would be easy.  But this is not an ideal world, this is a fallen world.  And, so we struggle in our own lives and we can struggle to serve others well.  As ministry leaders, we need to take this bull by the horns and become the catalysts in our churches and communities to champion for these women.

There are times, as married women, we look back on our single days … before marriage and children… as if we had all the freedom in the world.  We remember it, like the picture above.  Dashing off with our girl friends on another adventure, giggling away, without a care in the world.  We forget that we too had to work, we too had sorrows, our adventures were outnumbered by the mundane.  We may not have had our own kids to watch, but we may have been babysitting our siblings.  We were working off hours because the married women or parents took the shifts during the school hours.  

If we are honest, being single probably wasn’t as amazing as we remember it was.  We forget that even in our singleness we had sorrow, that we may have felt alone, that there were times when life was hard.  I’m watching a single friend go through the ringer right now.  Everyone else in her life seems to have it all together.  Marriages.  Children.  Amazing jobs.  She’s feeling the weight of expectations on her shoulder, and wondering if any of that is every going to be in her future.  She plugs away each day, and sometimes… she shares that the beam of hope for something different is getting dimmer.

She shares that she’s tired of eating out alone or ordering in take out, because cooking for one is not easy.  She shares the heartbreak of being invited to another bridal shower, wedding, baby shower, and family party.  She doesn’t want to answer any more questions about who she is dating, or when she wants to start a family.

Even for those who choose to be single, and embrace it as a gift, are hammered with expectations.  Since they are not tied down, it is assumed they have nothing better to do than work more, work holidays, volunteer more, serve more, etc.  People don’t understand why they don’t have enough money to travel more, go out on more girls nights out, or shop as if they have no budget.  

In an ideal world, it would be easier.  But it’s not an idea world, it’s a fallen world.  

In one of our first pieces on the topic, we suggested that the first thing we can do to serve our single sisters better is to see them.  By recognizing who they are, we make sure these women are feeling noticed, loved and cared for.

The second thing we can do to serve our single sisters better, is to stop assuming and start listening.  We can not default onto our own memories of how wonderful the single life was and use that to create a menu of opportunities to serve these women.  Instead, we need to engage them in conversation and get a pulse on what is happening in their world and lives.  If we listen, we learn.  When we learn, we know how to serve. 

Having a single woman serving on your ministry team is a good way to start the conversation.  

Single Sisters, A Confession

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Single Sisters, A Confession – By Gena McCown

When my husband and I got married, we were one of the first among our groups of friends.  Life didn’t change much for us at that point, but then once our daughter was born things changed quickly.  Our friends would call to invite us out, but that wasn’t always possible.  In fact, more often than not, the answer was no.  In the earliest days, I was just too tired from having a newborn.  Eventually it was for no better reason than last minute excursions required large amounts of preparation.  We had to find a sitter, pack up our daughter, drop her off, then of course pick her home, before returning home.  Being completely honest, it wasn’t often worth the work.  We wanted to see our friends, but the effort to actually go out was more than we were willing to give.  Couple this with going from a dual income family of two, to a single income family of three… and our budget wasn’t really as free as it once was either. 

Here’s the confession part…

For years, I never understood why my single friends didn’t “get it”.  We understood that they didn’t fully understand what it takes to get a family ready for a night out.  I just wondered how many times would I have to tell them that we needed more notice before that would stick.  Eventually, after enough of our answering “no”… they just stopped asking.  That wasn’t what we wanted, but it is what we got.  Yet, I had never once considered what our change in life meant to our friends.  They had lost a relationship with us, and frankly we let it go too easily.  We could have done a better job of nurturing that relationship.  And for that failure on our part, I’m truly sorry.

Looking back on those days, there is a lot we could have done.  We could have been the ones to make plans, in advance, instead of waiting for their call.  We could have countered an invite for a night on the town, with dinner at our house or coffee later in the evening.  We could have intentionally made the effort to engage with our friends more regularly.  I was too busy trying to figure out what they were not understanding about our new lives, that I was not able to see that I was dropping the ball too.  Maybe I figured they’d be joining the ranks soon enough and we’d raise our kids together.  But, the way it turned out was that most of our friends had just begun starting their marriages and families as we were on the end of the story.  I have friends who have  their oldest kids starting preschool this year, while my oldest is in college.

What I have learned over these years, to my regret, what that I failed to recognize and value those friendships in the way I should of.  So caught up in my own world of change, I was unable to see that their world changed too.  It also kept me from noticing their struggles in singleness.  I have friends who are still waiting for their Boaz.  So, what does this have to do with Women’s Ministry?  Everything.

In book after book, conference after conference, study after study, and speaker after speaker… we’ve heard these words:

Our first ministry is to our husband and children.

So, we build up a Women’s Ministry robust with studies on being a better wife, becoming better mothers, dealing with the stress of marriage and parenting.  We volunteer, have collection drives, or donate money to causes that champion mothers and children.  We make meals for our new moms, moms who have a child in hospital, wives who have a husband in the hospital, and women who are newly widowed.  We have MOPS groups, and volunteer at VBS, then eventually we graduating to volunteering with the teen girls at youth.  

But, guess what?  Not all of our women are wives.  Not all of our women are mothers.  They still matter, greatly.

The single women (without children) of your congregation are not interested in a speaker talking about intimacy in marriage… when she is still waiting.  Nor is she interested in the latest potty training trends, or how to get your child to stop sleeping in your bed.  She does not want to make a chore chart or a cute framed dry erase board for planning out meals.  And, for the most part, she’s not interested in a class on couponing or making your own homemade laundry soap to save money.  She also may not be interested in the “Young Adult” or “Singles Group” at your church if she feels like it is just a bunch of fishermen trying to snag a fish on a hook.

We have created Women’s Ministries around the idea that the majority of our women are married with children, and this focus has caused us to overlook our Single Sisters.  Just as I was caught up in my own life and needs, I neglected to value my single friends… as ministries we can get so caught up in creating programs and events that meet our needs that we neglect the needs of our single women.

What do our Single Sisters (without children) need:

She needs sisterhood.  She is looking for friends and companions.  She wants a few women that she can hang out with on a Friday night, or take a morning jog with.  She wants women in her corner that she can trust to support her, encourage her, and frankly just have fun with her.  

She needs investors.  She is looking for women that are going to speak into her life, words of truth and wisdom.  Women who are willing to walk out faith with her, guide her, and hold her accountable.   She isn’t looking for just a teacher to spout words at her, but investors who are willing to take their time with her.

She needs strength.  Some women embrace singleness, and for others it is a struggle.  If she struggles with singleness, she is going to need your strength to hold her up during those times.  Your strength to hold her accountable when temptation comes her way.  Your strength when her judgment is blinded.  Your strength when a relationship doesn’t work out, or doesn’t happen at all.

She needs Jesus.  Just like the other women in the church, your Single Sisters need opportunities to dig deep in the Word… in away that is not focused on marriage and children, and instead focused on Christ.  She needs to be reminded that her worth is not tied up in how great of a wife she is, how wonderful of a mother, or having Proverbs 31 thrown at her every waking hour.  She needs to know that she is made in God’s image.  That she is valuable and worthy, strong and capable, a daughter and inheritor, and that she is commissioned to His great works.

There are a few things she does not need.

Unless she asks for it, she does not need to be set up on blind dates with your neighbor’s son or college buddy.  She doesn’t need your pity, sympathy, or made to feel less than because she is “still single”.  She doesn’t need to field questions about finding Mr. Right, when there will be a wedding, or if she wants to ever start a family.  She doesn’t need to you to prod her with questions about past relationships to analyze what went wrong or what she could have done differently.  And, she doesn’t need lessons on how to land a good man.  

She needs women who will help her find value and confidence in herself, helping her to view herself the way God sees her. 

As Women’s Ministry leaders we need to be encouraging our Single Sisters to join our leadership team and help us expand our Women’s Ministry to be inclusive and considerate of our Single Sisters.  As we open our eyes and see that these women are part of the mosaic that makes up the sisterhood of believers, we become more intentional about the space we create for them in our community.  

Serving Our Single Sisters

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If you ask someone about the Singles in their church, they will often categorize them into two groups.  First are the Single Mothers, second are the Single Young Adults (college age, early twenties).  However, the Single Sisters in our church are a much broader group.

If I asked you to dig deeper, you might even expand that definition to include women who are over eighteen years of age, women who are single moms that were never married or those who are divorced, and then women in general who are divorced.

But what if I asked you to dig deeper than that?

What about our women who have never been married and are in their forties, fifties, or later in age?

What about our women who are widows?  

What if I asked you to consider our military wives, who are technically married but while their husbands are deployed they are raising their family on their own?

Or, have you considered your married women (mothers) who have husbands who are incarcerated, or in a long term rehab facility?

Our Single Sisters are the ones who are walking a journey without a partner.  Some by choice.  Some by circumstance.  They are the women who are happy and secure in their singleness, and the women who desire a partner and family.

How are we caring for our Single Sisters?  Over the next several weeks we are going to be leaning into this topic on a deeper level.  On June 30th, we will have a local Women’s Ministry Council training event with a special guest speaker on Serving Our Single Sisters.  This meeting will take place in the Treasure Coast, FL area.  Afterwards, we will wrap up this series in the first week of July.

As we begin, we ask you to examine who are the Single Sisters in your church.  Identifying them means that you are seeing them, and that is the first step in serving these beautiful women in our care.

Connect with Us & Win!

 

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Social Media Giveaway! 

We want to make sure to connect with our readers and fans via our social media accounts. 

Why?

Because we share things on those accounts that don’t always make it to this site.  In order to promote these connections we decided to have a giveaway!  We are giving 3 copies of Authentic Intimacy’s Dr. Juli Slattery’s newest book “Rethinking Sexuality”, one per social media platform.  

How To Enter:

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Find the picture of the books on our Instagram Account.  Follow us, get 1 entry.  Give the picture a “heart”, get 1 entry.  Comment on the picture with your ministry position, get 1 entry.  Repost the picture and tag it with @womensministrycouncil and @LeadHerConference, get 1 entry.

Entries are accepted through Thursday June 14th at 11:59pm EST.

Winner announced on Friday June 15th at 5pm EST.

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Entries are accepted through Thursday June 14th at 11:59pm EST.

Winner announced on Friday June 15th at 5pm EST.

As you can see, there are multiple ways you can win a copy of this great new book & resource for your ministry.

 

A Word From Guest: Dr. Naima Johnston Bush

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The Women’s Ministry Council is pleased to introduce you to Dr. Naima Johnston Bush, from Refreshing Life with Naima.  Naima is a supporter of our ministry work.  If you will be attending our live training event in Florida, on June 30th, we will have a few door prizes from Naima to give away.  PLUS… expect something special from her at our LeadHer Conference on October 6th in Hobe Sound, FL.

It is summer time, and perhaps your ministry is taking a break.  This break from ministry obligations is a perfect time to lean in the Lord, seeking His guidance and direction for you personally.  Dr. Naima Johnston Bush has a few words on what hinders us & how to move beyond those hinderances.  

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4 Things That Keep You From Achieving Your God Given Dreams!

Inside of each of us is a purpose, a destiny only we can fulfill. As the cares of life encompass us we often lose sight of those original dreams that the Lord has placed in our hearts and settle for living a life of just getting by. Take a moment and ask yourself right now, are you truly living a life filled with Christ’s purpose? Are you walking in the fullness of your ministry and applying your gifts to advance the kingdom of Christ?

Most of us are not. I wasn’t. Until I quit my job in 2002 to form Broken Box Ministries. It wasn’t always easy, I didn’t have the tools, resources or information to do what I felt God was calling me to do. Furthermore, I felt that I was just too old to move forward and begin pursuing my dream. It seemed impossible…. I was so unsure of what to do or how too even do it. I needed to trust the Lord. All this is summed up in one of my favorite Tweets;

“When nothing is sure, everything is possible!”

Maybe you’re not called to quit your job and go into fulltime ministry, but you still have a dream! To start a business or nonprofit? Be a missionary? Start or grow a ministry at your church? There is a problem you are assigned to fix, something only you can accomplish! So what’s holding you back? After traveling the country and talking to tons of people I’ve discovered 4 things that keep people from achieving their God given dreams, and I’m working hard to help people overcome these issues. Ask yourself, are any of these me?

Number 1 –  Fear

For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind.

2 Timothy 1:7

We’re all afraid of something, but moving forward in spite of this fear is a true testament of not only courage but of faith. Perhaps you’re not moving forward to pursue that dream because you fear that God didn’t really call you to it, you’re not good enough, you don’t want to face rejection, you’re afraid it won’t work out… The list can go on and on.

Maybe you tried once and you believe you failed. But did you really fail?  Ask yourself if there was any fruit at all from the situation, did you learn anything, get closer to God, bless anyone? What we think of as failure can be a part of God’s plan for us. Just look at Thomas Edison, how many times did he fail before he got the light bulb right? Look it up… and I’m sure we can believe that electric lights were part of God’s plan!

But the first step to overcoming fear is admitting it to the Lord; then taking a step in the direction you feel He’s calling you to. You can move forward to overcome your fears. God believes in you, so you just need to believe in yourself.

Answer the following questions:

What Are Your Greatest Fears? Take these fears to the Lord in prayer and ask Him to help you move past them. After praying how do you feel? Keep praying and believing and you will see change!

List five practical ways you can overcome your fears. For example if you fear you’re not good enough to do what God is calling you to do or you don’t have the ability, make a list of all the scriptures you can find that tell you who you are in Christ and what you can do through Him. Read that list daily until the Word is hidden in your heart. What other ways can you think of?

Number 2 – Lack of Resources

You may feel you can’t go forward because you don’t have the proper resources to do what you know you’ve been called to do. There is always a way to get started, even if you don’t have a million bucks in your hand. If God called you to do it, then you have what you need in your hand – Read Judges Chapter 6 and use Gideon as role model, I do!

There is one simple fact that cannot be denied when you are facing a lack of resources to move forward in your God given dream. You know someone somewhere who has what you need or knows someone who has what you need. All you have to do is pray and then ask. I’ve gotten more stuff that I’ve needed in the last few months from folks simply by asking! Staff volunteers, recording equipment, financial donations, assistance in booking just to name a few. The Word tells us to ask and we shall receive, so get to asking. And remember God’s law of reaping and sowing, if someone asks you, be sure to give it if you got it!

Answer the following questions:

What are your biggest needs to get started?

Who can you ask for assistance to get moving? List those folks:

Select a concrete date on when you’ll ask them for what you need:

Remember!

  • Don’t be afraid to ask them for suggestions if they don’t have what you need

  • Take what they are willing to give, God can do much with a little

  • Apply the 2 Step Approach, “Pray and Then Ask!”

Number 3 – You Think It’s Too Late

One of the things I hear from people is that they think it is too late for them to achieve their God given dream.  But, I believe that as long as there is breath in your body there is time to achieve some part of the dream that God has placed on your heart, for the advancement of the Kingdom.  It may be modified, it may not grow to be exactly what you thought it would be, but if you still have strength, you still have time.

I always think of Abraham and the promise that the Lord gave him and Sarah, the promise became Abraham’s dream and although he saw some of it come to pass, he didn’t see it all come into fruition. But he did what God called him to do after getting hemmed up in Egypt, messing around with his nephew Lot and having a child with the handmaid. Delays, these were delays, but they did not take the Lord by surprise! God still brought forth His promise to Abraham, his dream of being a father. In essence Abraham set the foundation for a dream that would belong to the entire world. A dream that would turn into a blessing for the whole world.

So the past does not matter, the time to start is today. What if the dream in your heart, is simply this, the foundation of a bigger dream that will meet the needs of millions of others?

Get Moving! Don’t wait another minute, the Bible tells us…

If you wait for perfect conditions you will never get anything done.

(Ecclesiastes 11: 4)

Ask yourself, what does your dream entail that you feel is limited by time? For example, what if you felt you were suppose to be a champion figure skater, you love ice skating, but now in your 40’s you’re to old to pursue that dream. But you know the Lord has placed that passion in your heart. After much prayer, you could found a ministry that reaches out to figure skaters, or arranges free lessons to children who can’t afford lessons while also training them in the truths of the Word of God. Or maybe you could become a coach’s assistant and win a future world champion to the Lord, who will then share the gospel with millions through their athletic efforts. Time does not diminish the promise of God!

Answer the following questions:

List the limitations you feel you’re facing because you feel it’s to late.

Spend some serious time in prayer asking the Lord to reveal to you how your original dream should look now. Journal those answers, then make a commitment to do one thing everyday to achieve the dream.

Number 4 – Lack of Trust

Ultimately, the real reason we don’t move forward to achieve our God given dreams is a lack of trust. We either don’t trust ourselves or we don’t trust the Lord. Nobody wants to admit that they are having trouble trusting God, but I think most of us are not even aware that we’re not trusting the Lord.

Maybe you don’t trust that you heard from the Lord and you don’t want to make a mistake. Maybe you’re not sure what the Lord is telling you to do. Maybe you don’t trust that you can do what God has called you to do. But this is where your faith must kick in. This is where you have to walk by faith. I’m sure Noah must have wondered if he was really hearing from the Lord when he began building the ark. But God had placed in his heart a dream and the dream saved the future.

The truth of the matter is if you really desire to please God, if you really want to follow Him and you start to take steps to do what He’s placed in your heart to do if you are out of order the Lord will correct you. Failures may occur, and things may not always work out like you think they should but that does not mean God has not called you to move forward in this dream.

Nothing replaces prayer and fasting and the word for getting direction from the Lord. Make up your mind that you will walk by faith and not by sight, trusting that Lord will lead you, outline the dream and lay it on the altar, pray over it, speak life over it and then begin to move forward in faith!

So you see, faith by itself isn’t enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is dead and useless.

(James 2 :17)

To Build Trust:

Spend time practicing listening to and for the voice of the Lord, so that you are attuned to hearing His direction for the advancement of the dream that He has given you.

Commit each step to the Lord and ask for confirmation of those things, which He has called you to do. Get wise counsel.

Remember you can hear from the Lord for yourself, sometimes you have to just trust that you know and take a step.

Simply take a step in faith and see where God takes you!

Answer the following questions:

Give your dream a name, describe it, what is it and what does it look like?

List all of the ways that God has come through for you in the past:

Ask yourself, how is this any different?

For Further Reading: The Dream Giver by Bruce Wilkerson

Remember, your God given dream is not for you alone, but for the advancement of the Kingdom, the glory of the Lord and in the service of His people. On that last day you want to hear, “Well done good and faithful servant!”

So get cracking, the HARVEST is ripe and the LABORERS are few!

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This article is taken from: Go With What You Got, Dr. Nay’s Guide To Develop Your Dream, Pursue Your Passion and Achieve God’s Will For Your Life.   © Dr. Naima Johnston- Bush, Refreshing Life with Naima www.ministryofnaima.com
A dynamic singer, speaker, educator and author, Dr. Naima Bush uses her artistic gifts to communicate the love of Christ across the nation ministering at over 100 dates a year. Naima has written and produced her debut album entitled, Everything, her sophomore album, This Place and her latest CD, The Deeper Project. Naima is the author of Called To Sing, 13 Mistakes To Avoid When Starting In Music Ministry, Dr. Nay’s Random Life Lessons, Go With What You Got; Dr Nay’s Dream Development Manual, Confessions of a Big Girl and her newest book, Lessons from the Back Seat or How I Learned to be a Wife.
Originally from New York City, Naima holds a BA in Sociology/Women’s Studies from Ohio Wesleyan University, a Master’s Degree in Higher Education Administration and a PhD in Educational Foundations from The Ohio State University. Naima is the founder of The Refreshing Life with Naima, a Christian lifestyle organization dedicated to empowering women to live lives of exuberant joy, powerful prayer and sincere gratitude.
Naima is a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Christian Songwriters and Musicians International, and ASCAP. Naima is an ordained minister and is married to Pastor Jon Bush, they live in New Llano, LA with their doggy children, Bianca and Bucho.  

Leadership Calendar – June 2018

June 2018

We really appreciate your patience through our technical difficulties with this month’s calendar.    We are really excited by the response to our monthly calendars, they are our most visited and revisited posts!  As always, we have created it in a coloring sheet style that you can add your own flair too.  Use the comment section below to share ideas you think we should include on future calendars.  

Past calendars can be found on our download & printables page.